We were counting how many section bbqs we've had this year. i think the answer is somewhere along the lines of two and three. either we have poor memories, or numbers like 2 and 3 are so big, they are too hard to remember haha..

I had a few people who invaded my house at 2am yesterday. i think sometimes, it feels good to just sigh and go over to the sidelines and watch the battles unfold before you. obviously not everybody should do that, because then there will be no battle. still having said that, we shouldnt fight battles that are not worth fighting, nor take part in every battle we see. we should select the battles that are worth fighting for. but if losing a battle to win the war is what it takes, then so be it. is it better to be a battle-scarred hero or a healthy neutral? actually, i think i'm just talking in circles. arghs...