I guess sometimes people try to be nice and advice us on something that they feel is not quite right. but then pride swells and all our debating instincts are mustered up as we prepare to argue and force that person to defend whatever he/she is saying. the result is that the whole message in the first place becomes distorted and doesnt fully get across. somehow along the way, advice out of genuine concern has been mis-interpreted as pointing out that person's weakness. at times, it actually feels fun to be stubborn. dont a give a damn about other people's opinions. maybe sometimes, we should just shut up, listen and think about what they have to say. i wonder why i think so much about these sort of things. probably because its so prevalent in my life, though i'm by nature not an argumentative person. thus i may not openly express the fact that i disagree. probably also because i think its prevalent in the lives of many people around me. well i believe that everything works out good eventually. i guess nobody's perfect. so while its frustrating sometimes, i trust that each day we are moving one step closer to that perfect state we will finally achieve in heaven.

1 wife
2 kids
3 room flat
4 wheels
5 figure salary
Hmmm...